你留意過你的父母嗎?

你留意過你的父母嗎?
如果你在一個平凡的家庭長大，如果你的父母還健在，不管你有沒有和他們同住——

如果有一天，你發現媽媽的廚房不再像以前那麼乾淨；

如果有一天，你發現家中的碗筷好像沒洗乾淨；

如果有一天，你發現母親的鍋子不再雪亮；

如果有一天，你發現父親的花草樹木已漸荒廢；

如果有一天，你發現家中的地板衣櫃經常沾滿灰塵；

如果有一天，你發現母親煮的菜太鹹太難吃；

如果有一天，你發現父母經常忘記關瓦斯；

如果有一天，你發現老父老母的一些習慣不再是習慣時，就像他們不再想要天天洗澡時；

如果有一天，你發現父母不再愛吃青脆的蔬果；

如果有一天，你發現父母愛吃煮得爛爛的菜；

如果有一天，你發現父母喜歡吃稀飯；

如果有一天，你發現他們過馬路行動反應都慢了；

如果有一天，你發現在吃飯時間他們老是咳個不停，千萬別誤以為他們感冒或著涼，(那是吞嚥神經老化的現象) ；

如果有一天，你發覺他們不再愛出門……

如果有這麼一天，我要告訴你，你要警覺父母真的已經老了，器官已經退化到需要別人照料了。

如果你不能照料，請你替他們找人照料，並請你請你千萬千萬要常常探望，不要讓他們覺得被遺棄了。

每個人都會老，父母比我們先老，我們要用角色互換的心情去照料他，才會有耐心、才不會有怨言，當父母不能照顧自己的時候，為人子女要警覺，他們可能會大小便失禁、可能會很多事都做不好，如果房間有異味，可能他們自己也聞不到，請不要嫌他臟或嫌他臭，為人子女的只能幫他清理，並請維持他們的“自尊心”。

當他們不再愛洗澡時，請抽空定期幫他們洗身體，因為縱使他們自己洗也可能洗不干淨。當我們在享受食物的時候，請替他們準備一份大小適當、容易咀嚼的一小碗，因為他們不愛吃可能是牙齒咬不動了。

從我們出生開始，餵奶換尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、教我們生活基本能力、供給讀書、吃喝玩樂和補習，關心和行動永遠都不停歇。如果有一天，他們真的動不了了，角色互換不也是應該的嗎？

為人子女者要切記，看父母就是看自己的未來，孝順要及時。

樹欲靜而風不止、子欲養而親不在

你留意過自己的父母嗎?

时间

时间有一段了吧？

我们没再像以前那么冲动了啊

我们没了以前的感觉了

我们不再像以前那么疯狂了

我们也不再问候彼此了

那是为什么？

我们都开始为了自己的事在努力着

开始忽略了身边重要的东西了

或许友情对他们来说并不是第一的

有人会说：“友情能当饭吃吗？”

“友情不是我的第一！”

那他们，

会开始慢慢把专注力放在更重要的事上

而开始忘了以前大家是怎样，什么情况下变好朋友的

这些，不再重要了吗？

是时间

是它改变了我们之间的一切

是它让我们慢慢对对方失去信任

是它让我们之间慢慢产生尴尬

是它让我们不再像以前那么热情

是它让我们了解到还有更重要的是要做

是它证明了友情，只是个东西

都是它。。

你是曾经拥有友情的人吗？

还是还在拥有友情的人？

是在拥有着空虚的友情的人？

或是友情爱情分不清的人？

是拥有友情却站在不想拥有的友情的角度上的人？

还是，你不清楚你是现在是怎样？

My birthday

First of all, I'll try my best to write this post in English.

It's because some of you might don't understand Mandarin?

Today, 26/07/2011, is my 19 year-old-birthday.

It's really out of expectation birthday.

I thought I was facing it alone because today is, schooling day?

I've living for 19 years, and this is the first time I'm celebrating birthday in the school. With all my form sixers, I'm grateful and feeling to glad to have all of you as my friends during my last schooling year.

Although some of you I might not know you well, but somehow I'll still taking you as my friend. I'll still remember how you look and who you're when time passes.

To all the form sixers that willing to spend your time to celebrate my birthday, and spending money for the present, there're no words I could speak to thank all of you. It's really a good surprise and memory for me. I like it very much. I'm still willing to friend with all the form sixer, as long as you're not thinking I'm bad, or whatever.. LOL.

Thanks to Tommy and Jasmine, who gave me my first and second presents of the day.

Thanks for the watch, Tommy. That watch sure very expensive right? I'm kinda embarrassed to receive such expensive present larh. And Jasmine, you know I've got the same thing too in my bedroom and why you still buying the same thing for me? xD. Anyway thanks =]

After all, I would like to speak thanks to those lovely friends who willing come to school late to prevent caught by school, and bring a huge "Angry Bird" for me. (I know the back story of the bird xD)

They're :

1. Kelvin Soon
2. Yong Jeng
3. Chee Siang
4. Wei Huey
5. Meau Juin
6. Li Chia
7. Wei Ching
8. Yee Lun

Thanks to 8 of you. I'm embarrassing when bringing a huge thing beside me to walk out from the school = =! I'm feeling damn happy when 8 of you give me this huge thing! This is the first time I've received such huge birthday present. Thanks to 8 of you very very much!!!! I don't know what should I write here to represent my appreciation of you all. What I can say is "THANK YOU"!

And I would like to thanks to Pei Yen, for your lovely star. I like it very much. It's because I've the name 'star' for years, but I don't have anything about star beside me =3=! Really out of expectation that you'll give me present =D..Maybe it's because we've friend for years, but no present for years too?.. Surprise!! xDD

And then, I would like to speak thanks to Shan Ging. Thanks for the Spongebob. Actually even you present me DOMO, I'll still like it. Because, it's my present!!! But never mind. Just keep the DOMO for Rinkie xD. I'll still like the Spongebob very much.! Well, I'll follow what you've said, I'll put the Spongebob beside me when I'm sleeping. Hope there're no mini cameras inside the Spongebob to peep me! xD

Thanks to my bestie, Rinkie. Really feel happy when you're still remembering I'm tabooing with peoples' present me with necklace. But it's ok if you're girl. I'm willing to tie and bind by you forever to be your bestie xD. I'll wear it after my STPM. Promised =]. I'll learn to be a good girl so that my popularity will increase as what you've mentioned in the Minion card.

Thank you Aik Kiah. For buying me such cute cake and giving me the first surprise during recess time =]. I like the cake. It tastes so good. So sorry that I always like to bully you, perhaps due to your height or your cuteness? I don't know. Thanks for spend your time just to buy a cake for my birthday. I don't know how to express my gratitude to you, and of course the other =]

Next is Chia Liang. I know there've been some quarrels between 2 of us. And I don't know how to 'dilute' the feeling of awkward between both of us. And I know you're trying to talk with me. Me too. But somehow there's still a thorn between us. I hope time will erase all those bad memories that we're having a month ago. Anyway, thanks for your Blacky Bird. Abit run shape xD.

Jia Seng, I don't know what you want to tell me by giving me this cutie present. It doesn't suits my style larh. But I like it, cause it is cute. Perhaps someday I will use this thingy whack you xD. I would like to say that thank you for always swallowing own pride and let all of us satirize. And I'm damn admire your character, that is not get angry easily for whatever shits people talk about you. It's kinda sad that someone you like doesn't like you back. ='[.. But I believe one day in future, you'll get whatever you want due to your disposition =D...

Yau Yau and Wei Yen. I know both of you trying hard to find a present for me. Driving far to Pacific for finding me some presents. Somehow I not really know how to use the presents that both of you gave. You know larh, silver thingy easily get scratch when I put it on my handphone. =.=.. That's why I put nothing on my phone now. =3=.. Thanks to both of you buying me so much presents. And thanks For the Blacky bird key-chain =]

After that, I would like to thanks to two of you again, but this time adding She-Ring too! I love the last present that 3 of you gave to me. I'm so touch when I see the thing I want in front of me. The most excited part is, it still can transform!!! I was keep yelling "Oh my God, Oh my God!!!" when I saw the present! Thanks to 3 of you! Ring, I ♥ You so damn much!! Thanks that you're still remember me although we don't meet for quite a long time. Thanks for still taking me as Bestie!! I'm always missing you right here. ='[... Thanks to your blog post too!!! I ♥ it!! Damn ♥ it! ♥ everything you've done to me. Ek ek ek! Thanks to Wei Yen and Yau Yau. Really... The best present ='[..!!!!!

Steven, Andy, and Kent. Thanks 3 of you suddenly pop up in front of my door and pressing "Ting Tong~~". Thanks to Andy lied me that you're going to give me your present next time when you meet me. And after that straight pop up in front of my door and saying "Happy Birthday. We Hate You!". LOL.. Thanks for your MOL POINT Yap!!! I'll try my best to think where should I use that MOL. Hehhhh....

Nah Steven, come into my house just to shoot me my house air-conditional so hot huh? You're the last one enter the house and the earliest run away from my house =3=. I really get shock when you're coming my house to celebrate my birthday! Maybe it's because we never celebrate each other's birthday before? Hana sorry lorh your birthday I didn't prepare present. Next year larh my turn take cake to your house and smack it on your face larh ok? xDDD..

Kent!!!! Thanks to you come and eat a slice of cake and then sit beside to see Yau Yau and Andy playing Optimus Prime. I know it's a bit lame for you. Thanks to 4 of you willing to spend your time to celebrate my birthday. Really surprise for me. Totally out of expectation =.=!!! Although I still didn't receive present from you, it's ok and take your time. Early speak thank you to you first xD.

Yu Seng, thanks that you still remember my birthday although we didn't meet for quite a long time. I've heard that you're liking a girl in high school. XDD.. Aiyyaaa, thanks for your belated wish at 27th night. And thanks for your present at 29th. What a late present? Again.. Angry blacky bird. I wonder is it I look like the blacky bird? =.=!! Thanks a lot. You're the 4th person saying me "Got people wish still hiam? Got present receive still want hiam?". I think I really need to change my attitude - -!

Okies. End of saying thanks to my present giver.

Now is the turn I'm gonna speak my thanks to Handphone sms-er =]

1. Yong Jeng (9.35pm, 11.56pm, 25/07/2011, 12.02am, 12.05am, 26/07/2011)
2. Guohao (10.02pm, 25/07/2011)
3. She-Ring (11.58pm, 25/07/2011)
4. Chee Siang (11.58pm, 25/07/2011)
5. Rinkie (00.03am, 26/07/2011)
6. Andy Yap (00.06am, 26/07/2011)
7. Shan Ging (00.14am, 26/07/2011)
8. Zho Wei (06.25am, 26/07/2011)
9. Ying Xuan (06.28am, 26/07/2011)
10. Edwin Saw (06.45am, 26/07/2011)
11. Teik Koon (09.42am, 26/07/2011)
12. Jin Ling (14.09pm, 26/07/2011)
13. Wei Huey (14.26pm, 26/07/2011)
14. Lyos Lew (21.19pm, 26/07/2011)
15. Jing Peng (21.42pm, 26/07/2011)
16. Yau Yau (22.48pm, 26/07/2011)
17. Chun Yee (23.57pm ,26/07/2011)

And to those Facebooker. I think I can't finish typing all of your names inside here. There're 134 people wishing me happy birthday! 1 day per wish. I can live with all of your wishes at least four months. What a happy news for me =]. Although not all the Facebooker inside my friend list are wishing me, but at least I've got 1/4 of it. Thanks to those who've wishing me!!!! May God bless us!

Now is my turn to make a wish! I would like to make more wishes with the only wish!

I wish all the people who've wished me could get whatever they want, and of course live happily everyday.

I wish you, who is reading this post right now always dreams come true no matter what's happening.

I wish those who know me, and of course I know you, have a great everyday xD.

Song of the day :
Twinkle Twinkle Little Star - Foo Wah

想和你一起做的100件事

1、 一起看雪

2、一起看海

3、手牵手逛街

4、喂我吃东西

5、一起堆雪人

6、一起坐摩天轮

7、一起恶作剧

8、一起进 鬼屋

9、吃同一杯冰淇淋

10、一起搬东西

11、一起布置我们的小窝

12、一起看日出

13、半夜一起看恐怖片

14、送我一束花

15、为我做顿饭

16、牵着我的手过马路

17、一起看日落

18、一起数星星

19、一起洗衣服

20、背靠背听同一首曲子

21、在朋友面前介绍我

22、把肩膀借给我靠

23、为我擦眼泪

24、为我唱首歌

25、为我写篇日记

26、 在大街上背我

27、随叫随到

28、一起看球赛

29、比赛啃西瓜

30、一起捏泥人，一个你，一个我

31、一起没形象的大叫

32、一起熬夜玩游戏

33、比赛喝酒

34、早晨一起刷牙

35、一起发呆

36、一起过我们的纪念日

37、一起对着流星许 相同的愿望

38、一起折许愿星

39、一起做蛋糕

40、学对方说话

41、当一天陌生人

42、把你欺负的对我没辙

43、 讲一夜电话

44、为我剪指甲

45、一起养只小狗

46、一起拍照片

47、一起骑脚踏车

48、戴同一条围巾

49、戴同一 双手套

50、讲故事哄我睡觉

51、一起吃棉花糖

52、一起去K歌

53、一起淋雨

54、一起面对所有难堪

55、一起爬山

56、一起露营

57、一起晨练

58、一起傻笑

59、一起吃路边摊

60、一起去孤儿院送礼物

61、穿情侣装显摆

62、一起玩牌

63、一起吃米线到吐

64、一起踩马路到脚软

65、一起去医院看婴儿

66、一起去海南的天涯海角

67、把你打扮成女生

68、咬一下你的脸颊

69、每天说晚安

70、一起看电影

71、一起种花

72、比赛吹牛

73、一起见对方的朋 友

74、一起吃自助餐，牵着手进去，扶着墙出来

75、一起荡秋千

76、一起做鬼脸

77、一起走遍世界各地

78、一起数钱 (全是一角的)然后大笑

79、一起扎气球赢奖品

80、站在马路的两侧大喊

81、看你打场球赛

82、一起看演唱会

83、一起 沿铁轨

84、一起挤公车

85、一起放风筝

86、一起去普罗旺斯看花田

87、趁你睡觉偷亲你一下

88、一起放孔明灯

89、起钓鱼

90、一起下棋

91、一起在烈日下暴晒

92、手机铃声设置成对方的声音

93、每天为对方留言

94、一起捏对方 的脸

95、比赛各种各样的事

96、一起看烟火

97、在树下埋下我们的约定

98、去海边放漂流瓶

99、拍一次婚纱照

100、白头偕老。

Exam week!

Everyone is busy with exam recently.


Sometimes I keep wonder,
why after study it we still failed it?
why it just won't out what questions that we had study?
why????!!!!


Well, I really desperate with my maths!
Due to careless, I lost about 15marks in it!


Saw Jasc, Yauyau their posts that give up on some of the subject.
Failed again.
Did not pass it before.
Give up!


Sigh!
Examination really cut down student's confident on some subject.


It is really we too stupid?
Or because we did not put much effort in our study?
Or we really no talent in study?
Or because we just to lazy to memorized those notes?


I really need a answer to do well in the exam. =(

Happy Wesak Day!

Do you guys went temple and have a pray today?
Do you guys bath the Buddha?
Do you guys bath with water of flower today?


Well, I just went to temples near Sunway.
Had visited 3 of the temple,
GuanYin temple, Buddhist Hall, and Siam Buddha.


There were so much people and all of them busy praying there.
Even have to queue up a long line to take turn give the Buddha bath.
And clumsy me had accidentally knoced the Buddha while gave him a bath. D=
Sorry sorry sorry. ><


Do you know that when giving the Buddha a bath also have its law?
Mostly people will just give 3 scoops of bath.
Both hands must have right position.
First scoop of water cannot straight pour the water on the head of the Buddha, instead of his hand that pointed upward. =D
Secondly, will be his body and then the last scoop is pour onto the head.


Quite many of Indians went to Chinese temple have a pray.
But I saw none of us went to Hindu temple. D=
Included me, as father not free. =P


Well, a very meaningful day with eating just vege food.
All the best guys!
Good luck in exam!

你，能接受吗？

那天跟朋友聊天，
突然聊到一个话题，

要是你是一位已经有男/女朋友的人了，你还会跟你身边的异性好友单独共享一杯饮料吗？


K：不行不行，这样会很对不起很爱你的另一半。
X：不可以啦，我接受不到。
Me: 为什么不可以？很正常罢了啊～
S：除非情况所逼，要不然我接受不到咯～会让我吃醋的叻～

我是觉得没什么啦，你们的看法又是什么呢？
你，能接受吗？

Jasc : 我接受不到咯 xD. 因为我一向来都不跟异性分享同一杯什么的。。我觉得很不卫生。。即使女性朋友我也没什么会去分享。。但是有时候逼不得已我就只好与他们用同一个细草咯。。能避免的话，不要比较好。。但是如果说是分享但不用同一个细草的话，那即使与谁分享我也都无所谓 xDD


Rinkie: 喝水罢了嘛。。>< 太卫生的小孩子抵抗力比较弱哦～xD

Jasc : 不管卫生不卫生，我都觉得很恶心 = =